Let go of any childhood traumas you have about relationships. Remember the pleasure and joy of childhood and youth and imitate it. Don’t waste time on people who won’t listen.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.