Show your partner what you need by example instead of words. It is of vital importance now to quietly accept the state of affairs. The use of force or cunning will only breed regret and unhappiness.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.