Don’t let guilt or mutual recriminations get in the way of your relationship. Discard any millstones you carry around. Bitterness will only hold you back. Past problems should be forgotten so you can start making progress again. This hexagram’s image shows a violent, rain-filled storm washing the impurities away. This is the time to start fresh and meet others halfway with gentleness and patience.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.