Enjoying the harmonious aspects of your relationship will help deepen the bonds between you and your partner. By practicing acceptance, purifying your inner thoughts and concentrating on what is good, true and without guilt, you call upon the power of the Creator and meet a favorable destiny in the outer world. Nourishment of body, mind and spirit is the key to a harmonious existence.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.