Give yourself time to reflect on your relationship. Proceed steadily and patiently. This hexagram’s image shows a tree growing high on a mountaintop. If the tree grows too quickly, without first taking proper root, it becomes susceptible to being uprooted and destroyed by the winds. But if it establishes a solid foundation, it will achieve a long life and an impressive view.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.