True joy and lasting success is achieved by gradually and steadily nurturing your relationships with others. In our quest for love, success and happiness, we tend to take aggressive steps to achieve them. The teaching of the I Ching is the complete opposite: Again and again the I Ching teaches us that happiness and success can neither be forced nor stolen. They are achieved gradually – but steadily.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.