The image of the hexagram is a warm spring wind that slowly but steadily dissolves the winter ice. This should teach us that it is through endurance and gentleness — rather than through aggressiveness — that we overcome what is hard or difficult. Obstacles to your relationship can be removed by strengthening communication.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.