Before you can have a profound influence on others, you must have a thorough understanding of them. Before your partner will trust you deeply, you must take the time to understand your partner. A life without guidelines is confusing and difficult. To make real progress in any direction, we must first define the path we want to take.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.