Before you can have a profound influence on others, you must have a thorough understanding of them. Before your partner will trust you deeply, you must take the time to understand your partner. Straightforward communication that is honest and sincere will benefit your partnerships immeasurably. You must cultivate a deep and compassionate understanding of the people who influence your life.
Maybe you don't understand the answer, maybe you don't think the answer is right. But this is what Ching advises you to do. Of course, you can draw another hexagram until you find the answer you want, but then you miss out on the wisdom and progress that the I Ching wants to help you achieve.